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Matters! Your whole family had to adjust to you being away at the hospital, and maybe a parent being there with you. If you were gone for a while, it may take timeand patienceto get used to being together again. The good news is, many kids say their transplant brought them closer to their family. These pages can help you do the same. Sibling
StrugglesBrothers and sisters can sometimes be jealous of the attention you get, even if they understand why youre getting it. They may also be upset that you get special privileges like different things to eat, or not going to school. At the same time, they might feel guilty that theyre well and can do fun things while youre stuck at home. All of these emotions may make them unsure about how to act. They might be extra nice, or get upset for a silly or small reasons. These tips may help smooth the stormy times: Show family members you appreciate them with smiles, hugs, and kind words. Play games with brothers and sisters, or offer to help them with school work. If someones actions are bothering you, explain your feelings without getting angry and let your sibling do the same. Then listen calmly to what each other has to say. |